The Biggest Regrets of the Dying. What All of Them Wish They Had Known...

All Figured Out...

The Outro to Big Sean's - All Figured Out Song...Made me think...

Today I woke up and realized every day gets shorter
Every minute turns into the longest second, yet never ending
Age is nothing but a reminder and it doesn't tell you
How old or young minded someone is
Cause we all started at the same starting point of a woman's legs
But each have our own finish line
Understand it never ends, and the only way to be immortalized
Is to be remembered, hopefully from right than wrong
Better to be in the hall of fame than shame
Whether it exists for what you do or not
We create this world so we make what exists
It isn't about the award, it's about the award of being immortalized
And remembered for all the right reasons
Mistakes are forgotten, no footprints of any missteps
So when it's so late that it's early
And you need a drink even though the bar's closed
Remember why you do what you do
For the coldest drinks, the fastest cars, luxury
The adrenaline rush of creating what you think about
With who thinks about you:
Your family, your team
The joy of looking back and saying that you did it
Winning the game: hall of fame

Relevations

When it comes to knowing the bible and the understanding of my purpose I'm somewhat or almost right but my thoughts don't matter if I can't back it up with scripture...I admit as a sinner that I don't know my bible verses very well but I read every night for understanding 1st & then so I can remember...Hosea 4:6 My people perish for their lack of knowledge...I may not no much of the scripture yet but I know if I don't read day in & day out I'm in danger of going to hell...we all got the opportunity to read the bible & seek the truth but we don't...but God is merciful for those who will answer his calling...it's just the beginning for me so I'm still a little ignorant but I know the bible is the only real truth...


 Oh yeah the verses that really got me reading are Revelations 3:14-22...where god say he hates a lukewarm Christian...he can't do anything with people who follow some of his rules & not others..how we gonna follow the rules when we don't know em by heart...I'm that lukewarm Christian god is talking about & I gotta turnup/repent for my ways every chance I get...When people got a good job & can put food on the table God feels like some people act like they don't need him...some people only mention god when they are in trouble or need sum thin..I'm guilty of this..but god says to the halfway Christian that he would rather you be all the way cold or all the way hot...if you know some scriptures...you best be about your business to learn as much as you can...I advise everyone to read Revelations 3:14-22

InSecure Look'n Ass BitcH...

Hey look at her...look at this insecure bitch....

There are so many of them but you would never know they walk around looking like a Rue Paul but when you look into her eyes you can feel her weakness...

She got that im a bad bitch look but the bitch dont know who she is.
 A grown ass women still trying to find herself. 

I come across bitches like this everyday, but I'm not the one to save them.
Leave that to the so called gentlemen... who are mainly with them because they look good with them. 
But the truth is they would never be able to benefit from one another they "good for the moment bitches" lol...

She trusts in fake hair, and a caked up face to get her through the day. 
To get her through life...
She depends on compliments to make her feel good, and the likes on her pictures she posts on social sites
She banks on the check from her job so that she can keep up with this persona she has.

She depends on the subsequent chap to do what the ex didn't do. 
She depends on the following  fellow to do what her father didn't do
She hinge on the new buck to make her feel more sure of herself.

Hey look at her, just look at her...

No one never told her she was beautiful growing up just the way she is...
She never had a father figure in her life so she depends on the security of a man to feel complete.
Her mother never taught her how to love herself. 
She never had real friends that had her back.

She steps out the house wearing only the best money can buy....wanting and feening to be seen...
Waiting to be acknowledged...
She worries and stresses about everyone but herself. 
She has no goals, no ambition, but she wants to get wife up to be complete.
That's no way to live but what can you do? 
 I feel sorry for you, you insecure bitch you....lls...

Best Friend Bucket List....To Be Completed ??? SooN. First 23

1. Strawberry Patch or some kind of orchard. ( must have on overalls, straw hats, and a scarf)
2. wine tasting
3. amusement park and ride EVERY ride together
4. cook dinner together
5. go to a museum together
6. go see a movie together
7. get drunk together
8. go to the beach (i know could have been did this one)
9. make cupcakes together
10. go on a nature trail together
11. do zumba together (here's another one i know)
12. go skinny dipping (this is gonna be the funniest shit ever lol)
13.volunteer at a soup kitchen
14. write and publish a children short story
15. watch a lifetime movie together
16. go to the thrift store, buy a outfit and take pics modeling in it
17. watch all the episodes of the game together
18. go to Charleston and gamble
19. get matching tattoos that only we know what they mean
20. go to a pottery class together and decorate a pot
21. see a Broadway musical
22. go cow tipping
23. Go fishing together, and out worms on the hook....

PSA

So I was asked yesterday from a #1 fan about what I post on my blog...

The question was how can you go from talkin about young then the very next blog is about you being on a date with someone else or about the next young....

My answer  is....

Because I can. lol To me this is my blog and I write about whatever or whoever I feel at that time. Regardless of how it is. There like random journal entries.... They don't have to be in order, They don't have to make sense. And not all my post are about young and the next young...I talk about different issues we go through as people everyday. for example....friends with benefits, self esteem, abuse, etc...you actually could learn and thing or two from reading my post.....

So if you can read my post ...thank you. if you like it good...if you don't like it --great! that's your choice. But no one is going to tell me what to write. I'm just saying....

So to that #1 fan...continue reading after all you are my inspiration for most of it! lol.

7%

"7%" Written by a 90 year old

This is something we should all read at least once a week!!!!! Make sure you read to the end!!!!!!

Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio .

"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me. It is the most requested column I've ever written.

My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:

1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.

3. Life is too short – enjoy it.

4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and family will.

5. Pay off your credit cards every month.

6. You don't have to win every argument. Stay true to yourself.

7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.

9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.

10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.

13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye, but don't worry, God never blinks.

16.. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful. Clutter weighs you down in many ways.

18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

19.. It's never too late to be happy. But it’s all up to you and no one else.

20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.

23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

24. The most important organ is the brain.

25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.

26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words 'In five years, will this matter?'

27. Always choose life.

28. Forgive

29. What other people think of you is none of your business.

30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

33. Believe in miracles.

34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

36. Growing old beats the alternative of dying young.

37. Your children get only one childhood.

38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

41. Envy is a waste of time. Accept what you already have, not what you need

42. The best is yet to come...

43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

44. Yield.

45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift."

Its estimated 93% won't share this.

I'm in the 7%.

Friends are the family that we choose.