Sometimes at night I be on yahoo questions and answers. Its where yahoo members all over the globe can ask questions and anyone can comment- give there 2 sense. So this question stood out tonight and made me feel good about myself and being inlove...had to share it with someone. Feel fee to comment or answer in your own opinion...
This is what the question was...
How would you know you have fallen in love with the right person..?
Is there a right or wrong person in love...? If flaws make us imperfect and if imperfections mean somehat "wrong", then every person we fall in love with is wrong for no one is really perfect... If someone help us grow, would it mean that she/he is already the "right" person to love...? Acceptance, what about it...? So what if the person you love burps loud in public or farts terribly, would you stop loving that person because of those 'humiliating" flaws...? We say everyone is unique, why can't we sometimes accept that uniqueness and we always want the idea of a "right" person to love...? Is there a boundary for loving a person..? Ugliness, is that the boundary..? Sexiness, is that the boundary..? How would you know if you have fallen in love with the "right" person...?
This is someones answer i love what he said....
When you stop noticing all those flaws, and only notice how great person she is. when your able to see her the ways other people do, " dude how can u love her, shes so ugly" beauty is in the eyes of the viewer, same for sexiness, and all that, and "farting" hehe, Better out than in, said the doctor. :)
When you feel your completely yourself, no pretending, no attempts to be some1 else around her, then u love her truly, but you never know what her feelings might be about you, :(
In my eyes, Love is a lie, love is a means to escape the fear of eternal solitude, something i am not afraid of. i rather spend my life alone, than play with peoples hearts, tryin to find the one, Granny once said, The right one finds you. :)
Source(s):
Real life!
And this is my answer....
aww...i love this question. I say you'll never know if there the right person. But the heart never lies and love is strong. the feeling you have for someone is undeniable and unconditional. We might be two completely different people but somehow we click some how he's what keeps me sane.He balances me... Like ying and yang...to me when your in love with someone your in love with everything that person is and will be. you accept there flaws and you make them better. When your in love your comfortable to the point where you cant be humiliated or embarrassed by this person. There are NO boundaries. I say love till you can't until you absolutely know in your soul and heart that's there nothing else to feed off of...then that's when its over officially . That person is your best friend you can tell them anything, do anything, you wont be judged by them, you can be sexy, and angry, and sad and show all these different sides because that person is that other half and they accept you as well....when you can feel all these feelings then to me that's the right person and deep inside you will know and you wont have to question it.
Source(s):
My source is experience.
so how u feel...
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