Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Basic Bitch By Ray D

You might be a "Basic Bitch" if....
 - You a bum-ass woman who think she the shit but really ain't
- If you fuck a nigga and all his homeboys, you a basic bitch
- If you a black girl and your weave is red, green, purple, or blonde... yous a basic bitch
- If you claim you independent, get wit a nigga, marry a nigga, have kids wit a nigga, take the nigga to court and ask for child support while you already gettin child support, you can kill yourself, you a basic bitch and you desperate
- If you tell a nigga you can throw down knowin damn well ur ass can't cook a raw egg.. you a basic bitch
- If you scared to fart or take a shit in front of ur mans knowin u been together for a year or two... you a basic bitch
- If you bend yo ass over in all yo pictures just to make it a lil bigger knowin you ain't got one, you a basic bitch
- If you and ur man got all yall clothes off and yall bout to have sex and you put yo hands up and say stop, you a basic bitch and you already knew what you were gettin urself into while he was kissin on yo neck
-  If you not giving your man GOOD head on a regular basis and think that you gon keep him to yourself, yous a basic bitch. Get it togther its 2012...
- If you sing any beyonce song all day erryday, somethin like "upgrade" and ain't nothin upgraded about you since high school in 92, kill yaself, u a basic bitch
- If you got 5 kids with 5 baby daddys.....yous basic bitch
- If you take any man on the Maury show knowin u coulda saved the trouble by testin him at the hospital.. yous a basic bitch
-If you FUCK every man in the world, "rehoecate", then put yo coochie on lock and act like you born again saved again christian, yous a basic bitch
- If i see granny panties on anything you wear, ANYTHING! yous a basic bitch
- If you step up in the club with them fresh heals on, cold done, and the back of yo ankles ashy.. yous a basic bitch
- If you fuckin a man in the same bedroom as your baby in.. yous a basic bitch
- If you walk like a bitch, talk like a bitch and get mad when somebody call u a bitch... yous a basic bitch
- And if you are feeling some type of way from something I said after reading this then... guess what??? Yup, you guessed it, you're probably a basic bitch.
 Is this you...?

Dee OH NONO's

1. If your unintelligent, arrogant, or ignorant. (i love to talk about everything, you need to have a open mind and be aware of what's goin on and be smart.- be able to hold a conversation and have a opinion about things)
2. Never being satisfied with anything (he or she doesn't appreciate the things you do to make them happy its never good enough for them)
3. Lack of commitment or cheating.
4. If we don't share common morals and values.
5. Selfishness and inconsiderate (playing the victim all the time, making everything about you havin that what can you do for me attitude)
5. Abuse (verbal or physical)
6. Broke. (we both have to be financially stable. if something happen during the relationship like layoff or something then I can understand that but want better for yourself all the time. You have to be makin your own money.)
6. He or she is not neat and tidy (im a neat freak he has to be one too...)
7. Sexuality (for me this could make or break the relationship. we both have to be on the same page sexually and be open about it. deuces if you not up to par in the sex department
8. Weak ( not sure about yourself, not confident, not demanding and outspoken, not strong willed and strong minded)

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Act like a women...then mayb u could keep something...

 I'm so against women that wear the long fake hair and eyelashes, put on TONs on makeup walking around looking like clowns, dress like they goin to the club every day,  so against women who are loud and obnoxious and don't know what to say out there mouth, so against women who think sex is a way to man's heart, they think that giving there body as a trade for a ring, or money, or happiness is a way of life. These types of women sicken me, make my stomach turn, I'm so against them. So against women who don't know how to keep a man. A good man! Talks down to him all the time, talks bad about him all the time, lies, cheats, seeks attention from other man, uses there child against him, welfare collecting women, so against women who expect the world revolves around them and a man should bow down and let you walk all over him...these are just a few...

My question is how can you want a good man if you can't be a good women? You have to bring more to the table then some pussy. Seriously. You cant expect more from a man then you can do yourself. For example if you expect a man to have a job, car, live on his own, then yo ass need to have the same thing. If its not ok for him to live at mamas house then its not ok for you too either.

If you have a good man you better keep him and what i mean by keep him is NOT waiting on him hand and foot or being his slave.Check him when he needs to be checked. Do right by him, take care of him cook him breakfast before he goes to work, iron a shirt of two from time to time, make sure when he gets in the house is clean, dinner is cook, and the kids are under control. Especially if he worked a  long day at work...to me that's something EVERY women should be doing if your in a committed relationship and living with the person. Be good to him and show him you love him all the time. Give him head on the regular he should never have to ask, sex him good on the regular, be his freak!  Don't nag and complain about every damn thing all the time. Pick your battles not everything is worth fighting over. These little things can make a huge differences in a relationship.

But yet some women think there too good to be doing these things and that the man should be doing all for them. There are things he should be doing as while. Its goes both ways, but were talking about women right now. Makes me think sometimes when i witness this happening with females well with that attitude honey no wonder your still single. Still fucking around trying to get wife'd up. Why even waste your time dating and fucking if you can't do anything for him??? Ladies you have to do more then fuck him , and look pretty 247....

Ladies yall need to really sit back and ask yourself why you still single, and instead of pointing the finger or talking about men aint shit yall really need to evaluate yall selves.

Stop bringing the hurt and pain from the past relationship into the new one. Whatever mental issues you got going on with you ...you need to resolve before going into the next relationship

Don't let NO man run over you, abuse you in any way. Be a good women to a good man...

Stop being selfish.

Put you child or children first. I see women looking fly with name brand clothes, and hair and nails done and the child looking dirty, and nappy hair...that should be the other way around your children should always look clean, healthy, and fly and then you 2nd

Stop putting men, partying, sex, and drugs before your kids.

Stop being desperate. Giving your # out to anyone that ask, flirting with anyone that flirts with you, I know being single means at times your also alone but you have to learn how to be comfortable and ok with being alone. You don't need nobody.

Stop bringing different men in and out of your children lives. Got the child calling all your boyfriends Daddy...smh

Stop waiting on shit to happen and make shit happen.

Stop opening your legs for every Tom, Dick, and Harry and learn discipline. I hear all the time aww he look good, I aint had none in a while, or he got money so ima let him fuck....smh...where's your self control???

Don't let yourself go. Keep you hair up, stay smelln good, exercise often, and look good. 

Be open minded, and intelligent learn about things that are going on in the world and around your city.

Stop getting pregnant by men you know aint shit, and then after the baby comes you expect yall to be this perfect happy family

Make sure you step your game up before you go out searching for mr.right

Ask yourself what can i bring to the table? How can I make him better?

Be his best friend.

I'm not trying to come at the ladies when i got the writing this came out and it needs to be addressed some how because I see so many people getting divorced, women having all these children, women fighting each other over men, uneducated women, un intelligent women, women who are lost and don't know themselves so they seek attention from men, women who don't know what love is or how to love themselves I see all these types of women with some type of issue but yet there never looked in the mirror to see if the problem start with them within.

So if your one of these women that think you may have a problem. Please work on fixing it. Because the way you act and carry yourself affects everyone that has to deal with you. 

Gettin on MEN will be my next post...until then ladies step ya game up!