I'm so against women that wear the long fake hair and eyelashes, put on TONs on makeup walking around looking like clowns, dress like they goin to the club every day, so against women who are loud and obnoxious and don't know what to say out there mouth, so against women who think sex is a way to man's heart, they think that giving there body as a trade for a ring, or money, or happiness is a way of life. These types of women sicken me, make my stomach turn, I'm so against them. So against women who don't know how to keep a man. A good man! Talks down to him all the time, talks bad about him all the time, lies, cheats, seeks attention from other man, uses there child against him, welfare collecting women, so against women who expect the world revolves around them and a man should bow down and let you walk all over him...these are just a few...
My question is how can you want a good man if you can't be a good women? You have to bring more to the table then some pussy. Seriously. You cant expect more from a man then you can do yourself. For example if you expect a man to have a job, car, live on his own, then yo ass need to have the same thing. If its not ok for him to live at mamas house then its not ok for you too either.
If you have a good man you better keep him and what i mean by keep him is NOT waiting on him hand and foot or being his slave.Check him when he needs to be checked. Do right by him, take care of him cook him breakfast before he goes to work, iron a shirt of two from time to time, make sure when he gets in the house is clean, dinner is cook, and the kids are under control. Especially if he worked a long day at work...to me that's something EVERY women should be doing if your in a committed relationship and living with the person. Be good to him and show him you love him all the time. Give him head on the regular he should never have to ask, sex him good on the regular, be his freak! Don't nag and complain about every damn thing all the time. Pick your battles not everything is worth fighting over. These little things can make a huge differences in a relationship.
But yet some women think there too good to be doing these things and that the man should be doing all for them. There are things he should be doing as while. Its goes both ways, but were talking about women right now. Makes me think sometimes when i witness this happening with females well with that attitude honey no wonder your still single. Still fucking around trying to get wife'd up. Why even waste your time dating and fucking if you can't do anything for him??? Ladies you have to do more then fuck him , and look pretty 247....
Ladies yall need to really sit back and ask yourself why you still single, and instead of pointing the finger or talking about men aint shit yall really need to evaluate yall selves.
Stop bringing the hurt and pain from the past relationship into the new one. Whatever mental issues you got going on with you ...you need to resolve before going into the next relationship
Don't let NO man run over you, abuse you in any way. Be a good women to a good man...
Stop being selfish.
Put you child or children first. I see women looking fly with name brand clothes, and hair and nails done and the child looking dirty, and nappy hair...that should be the other way around your children should always look clean, healthy, and fly and then you 2nd
Stop putting men, partying, sex, and drugs before your kids.
Stop being desperate. Giving your # out to anyone that ask, flirting with anyone that flirts with you, I know being single means at times your also alone but you have to learn how to be comfortable and ok with being alone. You don't need nobody.
Stop bringing different men in and out of your children lives. Got the child calling all your boyfriends Daddy...smh
Stop waiting on shit to happen and make shit happen.
Stop opening your legs for every Tom, Dick, and Harry and learn discipline. I hear all the time aww he look good, I aint had none in a while, or he got money so ima let him fuck....smh...where's your self control???
Don't let yourself go. Keep you hair up, stay smelln good, exercise often, and look good.
Be open minded, and intelligent learn about things that are going on in the world and around your city.
Stop getting pregnant by men you know aint shit, and then after the baby comes you expect yall to be this perfect happy family
Make sure you step your game up before you go out searching for mr.right
Ask yourself what can i bring to the table? How can I make him better?
Be his best friend.
I'm not trying to come at the ladies when i got the writing this came out and it needs to be addressed some how because I see so many people getting divorced, women having all these children, women fighting each other over men, uneducated women, un intelligent women, women who are lost and don't know themselves so they seek attention from men, women who don't know what love is or how to love themselves I see all these types of women with some type of issue but yet there never looked in the mirror to see if the problem start with them within.
So if your one of these women that think you may have a problem. Please work on fixing it. Because the way you act and carry yourself affects everyone that has to deal with you.
Gettin on MEN will be my next post...until then ladies step ya game up!
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